This was inspired by a conversation that I had with one of my private clients last week. In her session, we were setting the true intention and vision of what she most desires as a Woman of Wealth, in life, in business, in relationships, and we were really getting clear and dialling in exactly what it is that she wants.

Now, in this process that I work on with my clients, what I find happens is we first choose the desire, a soul desire that it is true for us. We set that as done, and then, in that moment, what happens is we open up energetically to it. Now we have this responsibility to take our energy and redirect it into that version of us — the version of us who naturally operates in the realm of these desires being done.

So the thing with money and the thing with wealth and creating more, receiving more and manifestation is that money isn’t responding to what we say we want. It actually responds to who we are being, and even more so than who we are being, it’s responding to our standards. The standards that we set for ourselves, the standards that we operate from. And here’s the thing, this is a practice before it just becomes normal, saying what we desire and then being faced with opportunities and experiences to practice the embodiment of that version of us.

So, rather than saying I want this thing, but my actions speak otherwise, try this.

You said you wanted this thing.

This is a true soul desire.

Now, who do you choose to be and what is the standard you now operate from?

If we say we desire to increase our wealth, yet we are still settling for the past conditions or we’re still seeing ourselves in a past identity, or we’re still reaching so far back to still be serving the old type of client that feels comfortable, then we’re not truly operating from the realm of soul and from our power, from our desires.

If we desire more, we have to be willing to meet that desire.

We have to be willing to know that it’s here and done and available.

But we also have to be willing to interrupt our old patterns, our old beliefs, and rearrange that energy. I call this divine rearrangement and there’s a redirection of our energy into the new standard.

I want to give you a question, a question that you can ask yourself, no matter what you are experiencing to return back into the standard that you actually desire to operate from, the standard that is in alignment with what you are creating, what you truly desire in your business, in your life.

And before I get into that question, I’m going to share a story about chocolate. Yes, we’re going to talk about chocolate and how impactful it was on my journey with looking at my money, my beliefs, my identity, my standards and my lack of standards more so than anything.

I was grocery shopping one day and I found myself really desiring to buy some incredible chocolate. I was really craving chocolate. And I was walking down the grocery aisle, went to the chocolate section, we’ve all been there and I was defaulting to oh, let me pick up this block of chocolate. That is the one that I’ve always grown up having in the house. It’s the one that my parents bought. It’s the brand that I just associated with as the normal. Now, this chocolate is not in any way luxurious and the ingredients were not in any way beneficial for me. But I automatically went to this default of oh, I’ll just grab that. And then I stopped myself and I questioned do I accept this or do I reject this?

And that is the question that I have for you — Do I accept this or do I reject this?

In that moment I realized I have a choice to invest not spend, but invest in that luxurious, organic, rich cacao chocolate that is sitting over there, next to the one that I picked up and is the true chocolate that I deeply want. And in that moment I set a new standard. And this is how easy it gets to be when we break this down into the micro, daily moments, because when we hear something like raise your standards, many of you are probably going but where, how?

That feels big. How do I do that?

How do I become the woman who moves from her desires, who operates in a higher level of wealth?

You start small.

You start with these micro moments. If you create more of these micro moments where you are elevating the standard for what you now choose, they compound into bigger energies that align you and open you to bigger levels of wealth.

And my chocolate story is probably one that you can relate to in some way. We’ve all had those moments where we just choose what we’ve known as normal and we default to the past condition and the past behavior without realizing I can choose. I can choose in this moment to elevate my standard and from that day forward, I have never, ever bought the old chocolate ever again. And when I do buy chocolate, it is from this luxurious investment into the one that I really desire, and I savor it differently, and I taste it differently, and the frequency expands.

So, of course, it’s not about the chocolate, it’s about the energy in that decision.

It’s about how I saw myself differently. It’s about how I honored myself differently. It’s about how I valued and worshiped myself differently. And in that micro decision it created a compounding effect and a ripple effect into so many realms of my life. And so now I apply this same question “do I accept this or do I reject this?” to everything, and I invite you to let this be your guiding question too.

Because what we are continuing to accept is what we are creating.

If we start to reject the old, with love, with compassion, without any judgement on ourselves, but simply say, right now, I reject this, I no longer am available for that, and instead, what do you choose?

What is the new standard?

What’s the new level you operate from?

And let this compound into the micro moments, into the larger scale energies. Apply this to your business, apply this to your relationships, apply this to the way that you fuel your body and nourish yourself, apply this to your decisions and watch how it ripples into a much bigger energy and how actually you operate as a Woman of Wealth from that question alone.

So where do you want to raise your standards?

What, right now, are you choosing to reinvent and can you hold that?

Can you hold that new standard, even when you want to doubt it, even when it feels stretchy, even when it’s uncomfortable, even when you’re waiting for the desire to physically manifest and you’re playing in the energetics and the identity piece and you’re wondering — when is this going to come through?

Even then, can you continue to accept? This is how I now choose to move, so I hope that this lands in for you today and I want you to apply this to just one area of your business your, your life, your health, your money. Do I accept this or do I reject this? You’ll know the answer.

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